@JajaPhD
She’s not a financial liability, if you define a woman who wants a man to be financially responsible at home while she supports as liability , no Wahala
It's so terrible that even the alleged best of Nigeria's options are terrible individuals.
How is anyone supposed to believe that GRV is a great person, if this is how his closest confidante deals with people?
Everybody knows what they are doing.
In 2024, the most used personal appliance is the mobile phone
Social media accounts for most of the average smartphone owner's screen time
If the person you're texting cannot get back to you in 24h and is posting on SM,
It's by design.
I have taken time out to reflect and now it’s clear to me I should have handled events differently. It didn’t have to come this far and i sincerely apologize.
This is a teachable moment for me and i strongly appreciate the constructive criticisms. I will handle things better
In the end we can see that even he understands the concept of how the actions of your partner can make you appear.
If you like, forget that two truths can exist, and that you can hold both the responsible party accountable, and their very visible partner.
Then
@GRVlagos
came on and said he wanted the matter resolved and he would pay the money before today ends.
I said no problem, but I asked
@GRVlagos
why
@IfyAniebo
refused to pay me.
The reason given was: She felt unhappy with the work I had done.
How are you married 7+ years and well past 40 and you are still reminding us of who you fucked 15+ years ago?
Have some respect for your family? Yourself? Idk man
As long as people have belief/hope that a bad govt can do good things for them, they will never be incentivized enough to want a good one.
Selfish interest is the reason why bad govts are hard to get rid of.
So all this talk and you couldn't just refuse to marry the guy.
You can admit that you were afraid to be an unmarried single mom due to stigma, but not afraid of divorced single mom stigma
You are the terrible person you say you are. You don't get sympathy for being self aware
Choose ur japa partner carefully.
Don't end up with someone like me.
When ure done reading this thread, drag or block me. I understand but I gat to say this:
During my recovery journey from a devastating heartbreak, I decided:
"Not everyone will marry for love.
Make I carry my
"you people don't know what feminism means"
Yet every account that has contorted itself to say the meanest of things to a stranger on the internet that didn't say anything to them, have the same word in all their bios.
I know what you all are 🫵🏾🫵🏾🫵🏾
The reason these Palestinian supporters will never want to admit to any of the genocidal killings by Islamist and jihadists is that THEY KNOW that it is these same situations that led to the Israeli-Hamas conflict.
@calebope
I recently heard one that's somewhat better - Sushi date.
All you can eat sushi can be like $30-$70 for both parties and it presents as better than just going to Tim Hortons.
Alternatively, you can do coffee, but at an upscale coffee place (non chain store)
Brother, all this "supportive" talk is facetious.
Your friend doesn't have a partner yet. You can't know if they are going to considerably outearn your friend or not
So to say you or your friend doesn't want someone who is looking for 50/50 is a declaration of expectations.
Understand that there’s difference between wanting a supportive partner and being a 50:50man. A 50:50man is an irresponsible man and I won’t even wish such man on a woman i dislike.
I don't need to tell people that if a man doesn't contribute to house work in a dual income home, he's selfish.
I do not need to use that to qualify my earlier statement.
Your friend can see spectator index's tweet about the international Court of Justice's rulings over Israel-Palestine 47 mins ago
But hasn't engaged w/ one tweet denouncing Islamic killings of People in Plateau state
From the same country where their parents and families reside.
True life story. I know a couple with two kids who moved to the US from Nigeria. They were both bankers and the husband got a Master’s admission (no funding) and came on an F1 Student Visa while the rest of the family came with him on F2 Dependent Visas. He paid for his Master’s
There's hardly any individual person that's worth the amount of effort that this takes. Most of us are nobodies (and I say it with the utmost respect)
Is it possible? Yes
Is it feasible? The amount of chance involved means that it's very very unlikely to be successful.
Years ago on twitter, someone did a thread on asymmetry of information.
Someone can study your digital footprint for years, know what you like and dislike, then use it to come into your life. Then break you.
I think there's something to be said for the human condition and Maslow's hierarchy of needs
When I didn't have citizenship, I kept fantasizing about how I'll travel any and everywhere.
Now that it's here, I can't even be bothered to apply for passport.
It's so weird
Leaving a person isn't abuse. There's a lot of terrible equivalencies you've jumped through to justify a known partner being assumed to be potentially abusive at some point, without any indicators or iota of doubt.
If you believe your partner can be abusive, why marry them?
If you are making $10k monthly in Nigeria, you cannot cope here. Don't move on that salary.
The moment you're resident here, that 10k becomes like 5k+ monthly
Just visit and leave.
Move to Vietnam and live like a King.
We need men to value themselves beyond a woman's need for attention from them.
A woman can want your attention and not seek it by confrontation.
I've lived it, and you can too.
Demand better for yourself.
You've got this!
Any woman who sends you this kind of messages actually loves you and wants your attention. Jokes on you that you ended the talking stage because of this. Its not the flex you think it is.
I'm at the point where I'm about to no longer tell babes in Canada that I'm Nigerian
Nigerian men PR is getting to the point that it creates certain expectations that I'm not interested in realizing for anyone I don't know abeg
When you assess it critically, you find that even though you are all friends, they are quick to assume that you'll play that bf part if the need ever comes up.
But you find that they are quick to remember boundaries when you even seem like you may need help.
My absolute favorite thing on this app is when people who are always high handed regarding others, go ahead and do the same thing they judge others for, and then get dragged for it.
I’ve noticed that if you’re a confident guy that is secure enough to be genuine with everybody you meet, a lot of women will exclude you from their dating options
I wonder why
I need men to want better for themselves
I need men to see themselves as human beings, and to be able to embrace emotions.
The lack of esteem that comes from being unable to see yourself as worthy of respect as shown by a huge section of 234 men these days is frankly appalling
Truthfully, the dating pool isn’t favourable from both ends. What is this insensitivity? Just to check up on someone you claim to have an interest in? and you’re ranting. She dodged a bullet.
Nigerian women will be terrible people - on purpose
And get mad at you for not indulging and rightfully calling out their bs.
Then instead of correcting the behaviour or simply just deciding to collaborate,
They will dig in their heels some more and continue to escalate things
Women keep malice, refuse to admit wrong or hold themselves accountable, and struggle to apologize in the face of overwhelming evidence
But it's men that don't have the patience for peace.
You cannot make peace alone. Stop gaslighting men.
That thing that you ladies did today on the timeline because a man broke up with someone he was dating, over things he had agreed to and since changed his mind about, was incredibly terrible.
Oyibo movies fell off, man.
Movies used to be realistic and now it's just so half assed.
You're actually better off watching a movie from before 2010 than any of the bs on screen these days
GRV has done the right thing
Now all the shame rests with his wife once the debt is settled.
This is a fairly straightforward thing that you guys have made a complex debacle of.
It never had to get to this point.
@Dahmolah
Lmao there's nothing that turns a person conservative like becoming a homeowner. I've seen this with people in real life.
Biggest empaths, then they become landlords and face certain experiences that change them
Then
@GRVlagos
came on and said he wanted the matter resolved and he would pay the money before today ends.
I said no problem, but I asked
@GRVlagos
why
@IfyAniebo
refused to pay me.
The reason given was: She felt unhappy with the work I had done.
Our lives can become a self fulfilling prophecy.
We must constantly work on the things we cherish, to prevent a future that can be fulfilled by doing nothing.
It's a sneaky link. The factual definition of it is that you're sneaky. It's right there in the name fgs!
How the fuck do you do sneaky dates? 🤣
All na scope.
No gree for Nigerian women pls
Nigerian men between the ages of 28 and 34, residing in Ontario and interested in having genuine friendships involving this kind of medemede pls apply within 🤲🏾
This lack of hope that everyone is fighting is where I was in 2015. I didn't need anybody to tell me where things were headed.
I stopped applying to Nigerian jobs after the elections, and started doing mad research.
Some people are instead calling his caption a rant, and ignoring at least 5 different texts from that girl.
This is peak Twitter BC I cannot believe what I'm seeing (and from penis bearing people too)
Lmao that caption pretty much said that outbursts that create conflict instead of communication isn't something he can tolerate in someone that's an older, gainfully employed adult.
But for some reason, that's why he's wrong in the scenario.
Doesn't make any sense.
Hydonni is textbook non conventional beauty. It's more than just looks and fitting an archetype.
And I think a lot of men struggle with understanding the conflict between their lust and their conditioning.
Christian sister: I want to serve God and look good
- Oya show me what you mean by look good
•open back gown with the highest slit the body of Christ has ever seen•
🤣🤣🤣
Can't believe this is my life, man.
I get to wake up, do stuff that impacts my community, have av decent income, and live a little on the weekends.
I'm grateful honestly. I don't deserve to be this lucky.
A lot of times, we men (myself included and especially) like to villify the actions of women, but not talk about men's perogatives.
There's not many men that can tell you if they prefer the conquest or the company of women - and there's a difference
All of you guys trying to distance GRV from his wife's handling of owing salary allegations,
How is this different from when you guys criticize APC and PDP politicians when their children and families do stuff that is illegal and immoral?
Or your perception of them?
This is probably the first long form tweet I comprehensively agree with.
The kind of public doxxing that happened yesterday was completely unwarranted and you people in Christian Twitter need to do better.
Women have accepted mens proposal and at the last minute called of the engagement.
Women have deceived men into footing their bills in exchange for a relationship and at the last minute jilted them.
Women have pretended to love men and accepted their proposal only to leave them
This man was with a woman for 5 years and the whole time she pretty much was like his mom. Lending him her car. Paying for his stuff. She made 120k. He made 30k.
He says she built his standards up. She was perfect but not perfect for him. He’s ready to find himself a wife.
Growth comes from the smallest of improvements.
Get just a little better everyday.
Just a tiny bit here and there
And let the beauty of compounding bring results
If the issue with Nigerian women is that they are running from their trauma, then maybe
they should heal their trauma before coming to say that there's no options 🤷🏾♂️
@JajaPhD
Thank you for saying this. It's such a cop out.
They could've properly covered the event
Send a local reporter to take photos and get paid via associated Press or whatever.
The chess event has been on for 2 days. I'm very sure they could've found someone with 20 mins to spare
First half of this tweet proved his point lmao
Christian women want God and morality to have flexibility apply to them so they can both appear devout AND conform with the fashion of the times..
So laidis, as a church woman, I’m not entitled to looking and dressing nice so I wouldn’t be tamed as a ‘worldly woman’😭😂😂
Again, I didn’t know you have met every lady in church to determine who’s virgin or not oo.
Brother Ikorodu, let God be your lead.
I need women to try and be real sometimes. Just some times.
Women (both married and single) will say whatever they want about men on this app, but the moment it's mrn taking, they want to gag freedom of speech.