I wanted to thank
@realJackFencl
and
@realdennishull
on publishing my debut piece on The Future Conservative regarding national divorce. It's a controversial topic many other publications would not have touched (especially not from a pro stance).
Men go where they are wanted. When the majority of young women make it clear that they feel that they are doing most young men an undue favor by simply giving them the time of day that feeling will eventually be reciprocated. For many men the only winning move is not to play.
Over half of men 18-29 have willingly opted out of the dating pool ENTIRELY. No marriage, dating, hooking up. They’re just OUT.
It’s fascinating to me the amount of blame placed on single women who literally say they WANT to be married and yet no accountability to men.
@ScottMGreer
Just the sisterhood covering for each other. The mother "pretends" to believe that her daughter is knitting quilts at college so she can "pretend" (especially to her husband and/or sons) that she was doing the same at her age (interlocking fields of feminine deception).
.
@Cernovich
is on point. The criminals that hunt for prey in the cities of blue America are not actual "outlaws" (in the sense that bandits in the old West were) but quasi-governmental predators. Many "law and order" conservatives have not absorbed this fact to their detriment.
@itskellydiane
The humiliation was not incidental but the very point of the post ("who were fathered by another man"). Remember: No good deed goes unpunished and it is difficult for a man to demand respect from others when it is clear he does not respect himself.
Those same single mothers also understand this which is why said men are treated with so much disrespect by those women. A woman understands that if you really had it going on ("high-value") you would not be trying to buy her intimacy by taking care of another man's children.
@ateenyalien
For a son of the bourgeoise like this man who probably has a six-figure salary, 35k was respectable but definitely did not break the bank. He used his socio-economic position to acquire a beautiful wife (nothing out of the ordinary here). No need to start handing out medals.
@_ZacharyMiller
@Semper__Idem__
@WesleyHuntTX
Trump forfeited any loyalty when he sold us to our enemies on every single major crisis (from the Wall to the riots to Covid). Four years of selling out his voters and getting rolled by "the Regime" does not entitle one to any form of loyalty. The knot is broken and he did it.
@St1Station
She is already farming simps (that she could easily monetize) with her clothes on (so why would she take them off?) She is living in the future where women will not even have to engage in actual "sex work" drain the wallets of thirsty men. Also this:
@St1Station
They’re too stupid to understand she’s playing the long game. Wearing a full face of makeup to $15/hr job that doesn’t even pay tips? She’s gonna get whisked away by a VP or investor or something.
@RedpillLuffy
In these sorts of absurdly mismatched relationships (assuming this is one), the woman worships the man like a literal living God (there is absolutely nothing this man can do to this woman that would make her leave). This is the sort of unconditional desire few men will achieve.
@IncelsCo
If you are a sub5 (or even normie) and a quiet bachelor after a certain age you will be automatically assumed to be a homosexual and/or lover of minors. MSTOW is cope but women do fundamentally despise bachelors (he was supposed to be taking care of a single mom and Chad, Jr.).
@SarahKWilliam
The issue is that by the time a woman decides to marry said "Good Man" she has accumulated a variety of trauma and children from her decade plus of savoring all the different flavors of "bad boys" permanently transforming her into a much worse prospect for said "Good Man".
@IncelsCo
This is common and why in nations such as France paternity testing is defacto banned. Cuckery allows women to acquire the DNA of one man and the resources of another. Nowadays many men are willing to openly raise other men's children lowering the need for this sort of deception.
The longhouse spans both the left and the right wing. We have Puritanical hausfraus who despise and wish to punish men for being men as much any green haired atheistic radfem. Their feministic desires are simply forced to express themselves under "based" and "trad" forms.
The outrage over the tacky conservative dad calendar proves that the chief enemy for some conservative women is male sexuality. There is a reason why so many of them marry closet cases.
Guys have been buying calendars like that for generations. It's not the worst thing in the
@IncelsCo
Same reason why a man takes his impotent rage at his boss out on his defenseless children when he comes home. "Femcels" and other such women take out all their pent up impotent rage towards Chad (the top of the sexual hierarchy) out on incels (the bottom of the sexual hierarchy).
@CaudilloNuclear
Broke Pookies are being fed, driven around and given a roof over their heads by their harem of baby mamas well "le sophisticated" alpha men are taking out mids for 200 dollar dinners for a chance to get told "I am just not feeling it". Being an ATM does not make you Casanova.
For every man who does something like this there are at least a dozen women who have done it. It only becomes so noteworthy since it is comparatively rare for a man to do so. Plus, attractive men treat women on the regular much worse then this man and they happily put up with it.
Being this antisocial is obviously the L
Mentally healthy people can think “not really attracted to that” and move on.
The need to cause others pain (particularly those being perfectly friendly) comes from genuine demons and mental health issues.
This used to be obvious.
Eric Arthur Blair (George Orwell was his fabricated name adopted as part of his proletarian larp) was a well educated son of the bourgeoise and fellow traveler who enlisted in the Trotskyist POUM circa age 30 or so. Why conservatives are so enamored with this red is beyond me.
@IncelsCo
AWALT. Yes, if you go overseas as a bluepiller this is most likely what will occur to you. If you are redpilled or blackpilled the chances of this occurring to you drops significantly. If you are going to go full boomer and marry one of these women do not bring them to the west.
The sealing of juvenile records is based upon tabula rasa (i.e., young offenders are essentially "innocent" and so can be "reformed"). Reality: career criminals begin to express their violent sentiments during adolescence so it's best to lock up cubs before they turn into tigers.
Juvenile records should be unsealed if the offender is convicted of a felony after 18. The point is to prevent a juvenile record from ruining a life as an adult, but at that point it's the *new felony* that's ruining their life as an adult and the full record should be revealed.
@crim_thought
@_Rian_Stone
This is because most men (correctly) believed that she was taking them for a ride. If you truly believe that this woman arrived at the age of 25 not only as a virgin but as a kissless virgin then my friend I have a Nigerian royal cousin of mine who you are going to love to meet.
@ScottMGreer
Just the sisterhood covering for each other. The mother "pretends" to believe that her daughter is knitting quilts at college so she can "pretend" (especially to her husband and/or sons) that she was doing the same at her age (interlocking fields of feminine deception).
@CryptonMaximus
These are all genetic. The difference in temperament between men has a genetic basis and having strong finances and wealth is usually a result of nepotism and a very favorable starting position (i.e., choose your parents wisely). Hence most men have very little maneuver room.
@datepsych
What a feminist lackey you are. Why would a young man put himself on the line for a women who is not related to him by blood or marriage and does not feel a single bit of reciprocal obligation towards him and supports the very regime that creates all these predatory criminals?
@UsingLyft
Making 100k/yr in your 40s is an incredibly solid position to be in (unless you happen to live in a money pit) especially as a bachelor. His "demands" may seem off-putting but they are simply the male equivalent of the sort of "demands" women make on a daily basis.
This cultish adulation would be at least understandable if Trump was actually some Caesarian man-god but it is all a mirage. Old guard Trumpists (such as myself) came to realize this very long ago. It's also to be noted that most of these cultists are Johnny-Come-Latelies.
When I say "Trump cultist," I don't mean supporters.
I mean the tiny fringe group who worship the man like he's a God, who refuse to admit that he's human and capable of mistakes, and who have no policy retorts so they resort to personal attacks.
That's cultish behavior.
@FuckLikeAFag
And just like that the difficulty setting on her life just went from easy to legendary. This is what happens when you get high on your feminist supply.
@IncelsCo
Issue is that even if this sort of woman dates an actual "regular guy" (6 or lower) in order to compensate for "settling" she will require so much power in the relationship and place so much red tapes on the man it essentially destroys the ROI of the relationship. Such is life.
@wanyeburkett
Americans simply don't know how to drink. They drink for all the wrong reasons at all the wrong times oscillating between teetotalism and alcoholism. They simply can't hold their liquor. It's crucial to take this cultural quirk into account when speaking of alcoholism in America.
American men are so used to seeing women who are (a) obese; (b) have strange colored hair and (c) are covered head to toe in tattoos and piercings that they immediately start "soyjacking" over average foreign women ("passport bros"). Women are supposed to look like this.
I totally get the appeal of attractive young women excited about something other than sex change operations or worshipping inner city criminals. But Ukrainian women are attractive too, so your geopolitical analysis needs more depth.
@RealPaulElam
Children spend the majority of their time in public schools from around the age of 5+. This is essentially free childcare. Modern women seem to think they should go through life without laboring so even the smallest effort is "a lot of work". The level of entitlement is absurd.
@IncelsCo
Women do what they can and men suffer what they must. When you combine the socio-economic and political privileges the longhouse gives them along with men's sexual desperation ("simpery") and male feminism, it is to be expected that Western women are as arrogant as they are.
@Slatzism
So, men as a class are to blamed for the fact that certain women of an adult age decide to make unwise sexual choices (such as doing pornography)? Women and accountability are truly oil and water. If you want adult rights then you have take on adult duties and responsibilities.
Women make it clear that unless you are willing to bow down to their whims they will continue to vote for the political party that champions mass infanticide, foreign migrations unseen since the fall of the Rome, and the transsexualism of children. Make of that what you will.
right wing:
> women r whores
> women cause all issues
> women dress immodest
> women bad
> taliban based
women:
yikes ok then we will vote dem forever I guess
right wing:
> also repeal the 19th
literal retards
@stillgray
It was inevitable same thing occurred to
@MattBraynard
and his Voter Integrity Fund. The latter has moved on to GiveSendGo (christian crowfunding site) and I advise the whistleblower to do the same or do something similar.
@SarahKWilliam
All human beings accumulate scars and traumas as they make their way through life from birth to death (e.g., fresh schoolboys are more less cynical then middle aged men). Due to female nature (especially as it pertains to sexual and romantic encounters) this is even more true.
@PaulSkallas
Odysseus had Penelope to go home too. Most humans are not going to eschew material pleasures for virtue. Having children is hard work (those pretending otherwise are coping). Unlike say in the '50s, parents are not rewarded with enough social prestige to offset such labor.
@MattWalshBlog
I have a large amount of respect for Walsh but I do tire of men from bourgeois families pretending as if they "started from the bottom" or were "poor". If your family is financially solid even if you personally have only "50 dollars in your bank account" you are not poor.
@CaudilloNuclear
Come on, now. I think we can draw the line at literal prostitutes. If a man wanted to spend his evening with this sort of women, he could have just gone to a brothel. Expecting a woman on a date not to be a working girl is one step up from expecting her to actually be a girl.
@IncelsCo
The point of all this is to funnel all the chadly men towards women and filter out the rest. It is a highly ingenious form of preselection since only chadly men can break these feminist social rules without blowback or punishment (and these chadly men and women both know this).
@MattWalshBlog
Marriage as we knew it no longer exists. Is marriage under a feminist regime that allows say no-fault divorce in any way equivalent to traditional marriages of the past? Or is a "feminist marriage" like a "homosexual marriage" simply a mockery of actual patriarchal marriage?
@alxcharlesdukes
@wanyeburkett
"Cruel and unusual in our time" according to whom? Surely, not according to men like myself who live in "our time". This fails even on it's own principles. What you mean it is that it should be interpreted to mean according to the "enlightened" views of liberals like yourself.
@IncelsCo
They wish to portray inceldom as resulting from social and neurological deficiencies instead of being the result of being average to below average looking in a feminist dating market whose main value of measurement is physical appearance (i.e., it's all in your head, bro!)
The fact that American women believe that cooking, cleaning and sleeping with their husbands is slavery and demotes them to the status of a degraded "concubine" goes a long way towards explaining the declining marriage rates. What sort of a man would wish to marry such a woman?
I wonder what the legal ramifications are for libeling someone by accusing them of being complicit in mass murder is. Notice that she immediately uses his looks as a surefire sign of his "guilt" thereby proving exactly the point that such men constantly make. cc:
@IncelsCo
GM, reminder to “incels” that if you’re taking relationship advice from
@incelsco
you’re getting it from this guy.
He’s responsible for the deaths of hundreds of people, and his websites are full of feds pretending to be incels, so leave.
While you’re at it, stay away from
"Only a political animal like President Trump could continue to hold sway over a third of Latinos as a Republican while being denounced 24/7 by the legacy media as an unrepentant racist with a special animus towards that same community." h/t
@emeriticus
@IncelsCo
Men who have female relatives think they are "fluent in womanese" when they are the furthest from understanding female nature since the women around them are always putting up a performance. Chad knows more about a woman then her male relatives do.
@IncelsCo
@Freegarenskinz1
No, I grew up with 2 sisters and a mother, I’m fluent in womanesee. I’ll translate:
She’s bragging! She found a gem in a lump of coal and she’s sticking it to other women who passed him and who might believe she settled.
@TitusSolMagnus
@excathedraa
@Slatzism
@CaudilloNuclear
So she is grown enough to vote, work, drive a car, sign a rent contract, run for office, etc.... but is not grown to make her sexual and romantic choices (including whether or to do porn). Women are adults or they are not. When you become an adult then you take accountability.
This is the political version of "man up!". These dissident feminists are simply dissatisfied that the revolution which they spend their entire lives supporting is now devouring them. Instead of coming humbly to the right, they want us to bend over backwards accommodating them.
@DisabledCel
Have a look at this giga-simp's response. This man hasn't been longhoused, he is the longhouse. This is next level interdimensional galactic level simping and hen worship. It's so next level it reads like some sort of incel parody. I'm truly in awe.
This setups up many men for disappointment when they come to realize that a wife is not a sexual ATM and that many bachelors have more active sex lives than many a husband. Not to mention that the additional burdens of marriage might not make up for the additional sex received.
@CaudilloNuclear
Usually, what occurs is that a teenage girl will involve herself with an older man (for obvious reasons) lose her virginity to him and retroactively have it classified as rape because "she was taken advantage of". Unless, a woman specifies a rape as being violent this is it.
@IncelsCo
A white normie bragging about acquiring an Asian woman is like bragging about acquiring an obese 30+ single mother ("blackpill debunked!"). JBW adds an automatic + 2 - 3 for SMV. A white normie is the equivalent of a male Asian 7 or 8 ("JBWmaxxing is law").
@KILLTOPARTY
The average woman demands a man to provide everything in order to "submit". Unfortunately, these women also want men making six figures before they even consider becoming housewives. As a result most men will enter 50-50 marriages where they will become longhoused to oblivion.
@wanyeburkett
Come on now, you are comparing a theoretical "revealed preference" to an actual one. When a woman is at her peak physical prime and her options are unlimited, she reveals what she truly desires in men by how and who she goes after (the female equivalent of the ring of gyges).
@CesarMarsais
@ateenyalien
This is rather socially normal behavior. I truly do not understand why he is being lauded for engaging in normal social conduct (is he being graded against autists?) He could probably explain her position better than she could so he did so (even lawyers do that for clients).
Those same single mothers also understand this which is why said men are treated with so much disrespect by those women. A woman understands that if you really had it going on ("high-value") you would not be trying to buy her intimacy by taking care of another man's children.
@nosoup4knowles
@JackFlak100
Men that marry single moms have limited options to begin with. Odds are its because hes a simp that hes down to those options.
No self respecting man would marry a single mom if he has better options, and nearly any other option is a better option.
@takeheartmonica
For every video like this posted by a man there are ten (if not twenty) similar videos posted by women. There are in a public bar and he is outlining his "art of seduction". Your anger rests on the fact that men are learning to turn the tables on woman (and that's not allowed!)
@IncelsCo
These are the same types of guys who will sit on their thrones sneering about how he was able to find a girlfriend because he is not some "misogynistic incel" and treats woman with "respect". Never attempt to save these sorts from drowning they will bring you down with them.
Modern society considers polygamy to be perfectly acceptable as long as it done through a feminist frame (i.e., multiple emancipated women knowingly "dating" the same man). The retroactive charge against the Mormons is that they practiced polygamy under a patriarchal frame.
Men will talk of how humiliating it is having to pay for women but if this is the sort of pathetic groveling necessary for some men to acquire it for "free" then the man entering a brothel is coming out on top. The latter debases his money the former debases his very manhood.
@deMaistreXIII
@IncelsCo
He properly "leanmaxxed" in order to show the bones that were being hidden by fat. Even in the first picture, it was clear he was not actually unattractive just a "fatcel" (and we know "fatcels are volcels"). If this is what you mean by "gym" then sure "just go to the gym, bro!".
@ScottMGreer
"Le sophisticated" accelerationist logic: Ackshually the more we lose, the more we win. Once the GOP is reduced nationwide to holding a single state legislature somewhere in the Midwest, then the thousand year "tradreich" will inevitably rise from it's purified ashes.
@RRR0BYN
Almost all the risk of marriage is taken by men. Agreeing to a legal contract that could for any reason (via no-fault divorce) cripple you financially and see your children taken from you is an immense amount of risk to take on. Women do not face this (hence your attitude).
@_MedGold
This is a noble savage view of screwups. Being a screwup does not make you interesting and playing it by the book does not make you boring (e.g., alcoholic single mothers living in poverty are quite dull while many white collar professionals tend to have some oomph to them).
This young man (and I say young because he has the countenance of a man half his age) is obviously sub-standard in looks ("sub5") but more than that he seems to be "touched" and is a nice guy's nice guy. Using him to score points is therefore repulsive behavior from
@kidology_co
.
This 44-year-old incel said more in a few minutes than the Red and Black Pill have been saying in the name of profiteering off lonely young men for years. The way he speaks about women with humanisation — including which celebrity he’d fancy losing his virginity to & why — is
@IncelsCo
Most men are put and stay in the friendzone through their own acquiescence. Men will do the most outrageous simpery (boyfriend duties) for a woman that they know considers them only as a platonic friend and then complain about how they were put and stuck in the friendzone.
She condemns men for imaginary sins they have not committed (but "could have committed") but exculpates women for actual sins that they have committed. Feminist version of "Minority Report", where as a man you are now on the hook for the sins you could have done but never did.
Most feminist demands are just veiled death threats (let women have no-fault divorce or we kill you in your sleep). Imagine if a man said women need to be grateful that we are asking for consent for marital sex instead of just forcing ourselves on them like our ancestors did.
@RedpillLuffy
"Paying is for chumps, I get it for free" - Man whose entire budget is built around the financials whims of his current girlfriend. I'm not even going to mention the guys taking mids on hundred dollar dinners only to get "I'm just not feeling a connection" after the fifth date.
The fact that women continue to equate men consuming pornography with women engaging in sexual intercourse continues to be absolutely mind blowing. Apparently a hustler magazine or an adult movie is the equivalent of physical sexual acts. I can not believe any man falls for this.
@alxcharlesdukes
@wanyeburkett
The idea that violent home invaders should receive capital punishment is basically a settled moral point even among the dimmest men. If there is to be a matter of debate at all within this process, it should be taking place in the legislature (among the populi) not "the courts".
This man hasn't been longhoused, he is the longhouse. This is interdimensional galactic level simping and hen worship. It's so next level it reads like some sort of incel parody. Truly in awe. If there is an actual man attached to this account, he must the fabled giga-simp.
@IncelsCo
Yes, under a feminist dating market merely average looking women (4/5) have an extensive list of potential suitors on standby not to mention attractive women. Unless you're "Chad" or rich, there is no male equivalent to this. Most men simply can not wrap their minds around this.
@IncelsCo
This is why all these redpill fantasies of "holding frame" and "being alpha" with women (especially within a relationship) are nonsense. Women unironically know their worth and if you keep trying to play the tough guy, there is a strong possibility you will simply be replaced.
The left in this country launched a social revolution decades ago that has ushered forth an America of broken families, mass drug use, sexual confusion and apocalyptic levels of crime. It is in their best interest that you forget it could ever have been or could be otherwise.
@biocompound
@IncelsCo
i.e., I am starving because my fridge is full to the brim with none of the food I want to eat. Is this what they call a "femcel"? "fruitful matches" is a very new age way of saying men above my looks equivalent. Most of these unfruitful matches are farmed in the friendzone.
@RealPaulElam
As said in one of my responses, if the value that women brought to men was so overwhelmingly obvious critics would not need to be engaging in apologetics to persuade hesitant men. Men naturally wish to be with women so when they are wary it's for a reason.
@TysonSClarke
@RealPaulElam
If this was the 1950s we would not even be having this conversation because it would be clear as rain that the benefits a woman brings massively outweighs her costs. Fast forward seven decades of feminism later and men are soberly redoing the math (the opposite of "nihilistic").
@pearlythingz
She's out of pocket but she's right. The massive rise in single mothers in the last few decades has created large numbers of men and women who are ashamed to agree with Pearl because it would indict their own (single) mothers for irresponsibility and malice. They are compromised.
The Islamic world's hyper-masculine sexual dynamics mirror those of an all-male prison with mass violent coercive or transactional homosexuality. Also, a large amount of beastiality and loveless dead on arrival marriages are common. This is not "based" in any way, shape or form.
@crim_thought
@_Rian_Stone
Pretending virginity is the oldest and most common trick in a woman's playbook. It's beyond a cliché at this point especially if said woman resides in a sexually liberal society (it's not as if these women are village girls in Afghanistan secluded from all men since birth).
A man who is a successful bachelor has much better insights into women then some man whose entire experience with women consists of marrying his first girlfriend (or thereabouts). "Nerds" who marry young tend to remind in a state of naivety about female nature their entire lives.
Hasan is a conventionally attractive and very wealthy man who hasn't found a way to translate that into relationship success and ben shapiro and jordan peterson are two nerds who were able to get women to marry and have children with them. I'll let you decide who has more insight
@kittenspells
@IncelsCo
This is virtue signaling of the highest order since in 99% of cases the animus of serious action will be put upon a man not a woman. Calling a man a coward in this situation is like a trust fund baby calling a poor man "lazy" for taking a day off. Safely disregard this "advice".
@SarahKWilliam
Female nature is much more sensitive to these sorts of emotional and sexual traumas (along with much willing to handle them) then male nature is so it affects women much more.
@DAQUANDSG
Black men will routinely refer to themselves and others using the soft a and even the hard r but apparently referring to a black man as a "pookie" and/or "ray ray" is when the line gets crossed. Of course, the man in question is himself a so-called "pookie" so keep that in mind.
@IncelsCo
The government used to "assist" men with that by not artificially inundating the job market with women, not subsidizing single motherhood, restricting abortion etc... The dating market of today is artificially propped up the State, it's not natural.
@IncelsCo
Not getting girls is a skill issue entirely. And trust me, you don’t want the government “assisting” you with any of that.
The quality of life here in the states is not nearly up to snuff by comparison to the past. And yes, it 100% sucks ass. But asking for the gubment to step
@_MedGold
There is a lot of repulsive double dipping and partner swiping in those sorts of "closely knit communities" (just adds to the general sliminess and degeneracy). Even though Charmaine would seem a more obvious "mob wife" she preferred a man she could control to one she couldn't.
@RadioGenoa
Before getting ready to charge in on your white horse remember: No good deed goes unpunished. White women are the demos that most supports the cultural enrichment of Europe and the first to seek to bury you under the jail for touching one of their sacred "wretched of the earth".
The men with the most "hostile" view of women are Casanovas not starry eyed virgins. As always the men at the bottom of the sexual hierarchy get blamed for all the sins that are done by the men at the top. Almost all of this behavior is done by women anyways (attractive or not).
If you feel vicarious pleasure from reading interactions like this you should ask yourself why. Really sit down and examine why you enjoy this kind of content and what thoughts are going through your mind. Same for women who enjoy “mean girls” content.
What do we know broadly
Conclusion: Do not engage with the police forces in blue area other than is legally required. If you have to defend yourself against one of their favored criminal pets do not turn yourself in unless it is legally necessary.
The amount of salt "passport bros" have mined from women surpasses that found in all the world's oceans. Marrying this man is the equivalent of winning the lottery but it gives this privileged princess (who would not survive a single day in that slum) "the ick" so it's a no-go.
@IncelsCo
Hence the the paradox when seriously dating such a woman. The only men willing to seriously date (and/or put a ring) on such a woman is the sort of man that she will not be attracted to and/or respect. She always harbor a secret contempt for anon.
@IncelsCo
Issue with the "redpill" is that even though it is supposed to be an intermediary stage between the "bluepill" and the "blackpill" unfortunately most manospherians seem to become permanently stuck in this stage since it is still highly conducive to coping ("just keep grinding!").
@Cernovich
This sort of reaction to such men is par for the course from Cerno (overcorrecting from his manosphere days). A man like that should simply either (a) accept the state of the dating market or (b) enjoy his bachelorhood in the company of beautiful women with that 100k/year salary.
Yes, that is exactly what tribal warfare consists (including in European history): Non-stop guerilla warfare between opposing tribes for gold and women. This is also what most piracy consisted of since time immemorial. The average warrior was not some Disneyfied Arthurian knight.
Prager is indeed correct pornography is not adultery. One does not have to defend the former to understand that is categorically different from the latter. It seems that too many Christian women allow their personal distaste at pornography to bring them into rhetorical excess.
Appreciate Prager for so much, but no. Porn IS adultery. It also aids & abets sex trafficking, including child sex trafficking. It is always objectifying, always unethical. It destroys individuals, marriages, and societies. There is NOTHING good about pornography.
Acting towards women as if you are in the '50s without actually living in a socio-political regime equivalent to that in place in the '50s is simply a recipe for the upholding of a regime of "trad-feminism" where women get all the old-timey benefits without the responsibilities.